Networking has a branding problem.
When most people hear the word, they think of name tags, elevator pitches, or awkward coffee chats that go nowhere.
But in 2025, networking isn’t optional. It’s how jobs get found, referrals get made, and opportunities get unlocked.
So how do you network without feeling like a walking LinkedIn pitch deck?
You use real language, with real people – and you make it about connection, not conversion.
Here are 5 networking scripts that actually work in 2025:
1. Cold LinkedIn Message (Short + Friendly)
Hi [Name],
I came across your profile while researching [industry/role], and I was really impressed by your path. I’d love to learn more about how you got into [specific role] at [company] – would you be open to a quick 15-minute chat sometime in the next week or two?
Thanks in advance,
[Your Name]
2. Reaching Out to Someone in Your Dream Role
Hey [Name],
I’m exploring a pivot into [their role] and noticed you’ve made that move successfully. I’m especially curious about how you transitioned from [your current field] to [their field]. Would you be open to sharing your experience over a quick coffee or Zoom?
Appreciate it!
[Your Name]
3. Following Up After a Layoff Announcement
Hi [Name],
I saw the news about [Company] and just wanted to say I’m thinking of you. If there’s anything I can do – intro to someone in my network, a second pair of eyes on your resume – I’m happy to help.
Wishing you all the best,
[Your Name]
4. Asking for an Informational Interview
Hi [Name],
I’m looking to learn more about [industry or company] and your name came up as someone with deep insights. Would you be open to a 20-minute informational chat sometime this month? I’d really appreciate your perspective.
Best,
[Your Name]
5. Reconnecting with a Dormant Contact
Hey [Name],
It’s been a while! I was just thinking about our time at [shared experience], and I’d love to catch up and hear what you’ve been up to. Any chance you’re free for a virtual coffee sometime next week?
Hope all is well,
[Your Name]
Quick Tips for Making It Work
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Keep it short. Aim for 4–6 lines max.
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Be specific. What do you want, and why them?
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Make it easy to say yes. Offer flexible times or formats.
Final Thought
The best networking doesn’t feel like networking. It feels like a real human conversation.
When you shift your tone from transactional to relational, the “ick” disappears – and real doors start to open.
Try one of these scripts this week. You might be one message away from your next opportunity.